The secret is now in the open and has been revealed to the world for all to see and enjoy. I first spotted it in the report: “A Woman’s Nation Changes Everything,” from California first lady Maria Shriver and the Center for American Progress.

This report -which is fascinating for everyone who wants to understand the changes we live in- highlights the fact that for the first time in history, women are half of all U.S. workers and mothers are the primary breadwinners or co-breadwinners in two-thirds of American families.

So after the first few pages, I stumble upon it, well hidden as all good secrets should be. Here it is, extracted  for you:

“Some researchers report a wife feels more sexually attracted to a husband who pitches in around the house, and one of the biggest predictors of a husband’s marital satisfaction is how often he has sex.”

And we all know that secrets tend to spread fast and wide. So I wasn’t surprised to find it the next day,on the counter of my local bookstore with the explicit and enticing title: Porn for Women.

For those of you who are more visual or in need of a clearer depiction of this secret’s essence, this book is filled with pictures of men doing all sorts of chores – laundry, vacuum and my personal favorite: cooking!

Please leave the book in a place where all men can get a chance to notice it – the kitchen for one…